So Happy New Year! Yes, I also cannot believe that I’m actually sitting down to write a post. It’s been WAY too long, my four readers…….way too long…..
It’s a funny thing because after having so many fun summer adventures, I really thought I’d get back into the swing of writing once I was on a regular routine again with the school year. But several things happened….first of all, last year I was having difficulty sleeping and I would typically write a post before I went to bed. This year, I’m a medication that makes me very tired (which is a good thing), and we moved our 2 year old out of his crib, to share a room with our 4 year old which now makes for very long bedtime process and later bedtimes for all.
That is not conducive for me droning on about zero waste.
I have so many things I would have liked to have talked about in a zero waste post – like how we handed out soda and apples for Halloween:

(And while I liked it and I think some older kids liked it, I really felt like we needed something more for the wee toddlers.)
How I revamped my filing cabinet instead of buying a new one – turning this rusty, old thing:

Into this blue beauty (this picture really doesn’t do it justice, by the way):

I wanted to write about how my mom and I also hosted the Women’s Fellowship Christmas party at our church this year and I convinced my mom to have a zero waste party – using all reusable table setting things. EVEN, gathering up a mismatch of red table cloths, reusing garland and decorations for the center pieces, and reusing old jars to make nativity candle votives that we gave away in a drawing (I made one for myself though, obviously):

I didn’t get to even touch base on sustainable wrapping and Christmas presents for people. I mean – I wasn’t awesome at either of those because I legitimately have enough wrapping paper and gift bags to wrap things for the next like 5 years. As for presents for my friends and family, I won’t force my views on them. If they asked for something plastic – I bought ’em something plastic.
My kids were a different story…..they definitely got some new stuff, but I bought some of their gifts secondhand and tried to be as eco-conscious as I could…without you know, depriving my children so that they turn into super villains.
Anyhow….I didn’t get to discuss any of that in lengthy posts where I ramble and whine on the internet, I have been wanting to at least write a post about this past year and my goals for this coming year.
There’s always a lot of talk about resolutions at this time of year, and here’s a few facts for y’all. 88% of people do not follow through on their resolutions and January 18 is the date that most Americans give up on their fitness resolutions.
This past year, I’ve been referring to my zero waste-ness as a resolution and I’ve had several people ask me in the past month if I would be giving it up with the new year (and move on to something new). Really, it’s been more of a life change than a resolution. I can honestly say that the changes I’ve made this past year….have just been amazing! I would say that I LOVE them, but as my Dad likes to say – saying “love” should be reserved for people because if I say I love Dorito’s and I love my kids – well I want my kids and my husband to feel the weight and meaning of that word.
So…if we had another word for “love” in English, I would use it now. So let’s just say that I happen to REALLY REALLY REALLY LIKE the changes I’ve made. My zero waste razor, shampoo and conditioner bars, zero waste deodorant, my face lotion bar, bringing with me my own zero waste kit….. it’s been amazing!
Oh – another thing that could have been a post. A lot of the time, I’ll go to Subway for lunch with my co-teachers and the people there now know me and they let me bring my own cup to fill up my own drink there (other places have let me do this too….if I have it on me!) and they don’t put my sandwich in a plastic bag. And then I throw the wax wrap into my wood burning fire place as a fire starter.
My shower went from this:

To this:

I have no plans to return it to its previous state any time soon (or ever!). My toiletry bag went from this little case of plastic:

To this:

Oh – and since this picture, I now have 2 reusable silicon swabs to replace those Qtips. One for my ears, one for make-up – which was supposed to be another post.
And that’s just a small, small taste of the impact this has had on me. But it’s a new year and it’s time to both reflect on the past, and look to the future.
My plan is to maintain and go even bigger with sustainability this year.
So first of all, I want to get better at composting. I don’t do it right. I would like to study more, but more now, I’m still happy that my food is somewhat breaking down outside rather than sitting in a trash bag in a landfill.
Next, I want to get better at sustainable food.
Food has absolutely been hands down the toughest part of trying to be zero waste for me. I wish I had easier access to some more zero waste, bulk stores and have the freedom (aka – not worrying about children who only want to eat chicken nuggets and cinnamon rolls) to experiment a little bit more with other foods.
So my 2nd resolution this year, is to experiment a little bit more with other foods.
Ha ha ha! Take that, children!
If my kids are just going to eat chicken nuggets, I’d like to branch out into more sustainable food. Specifically…..incorporate more vegetarian meals (….well, at least 1-3 times a week) and decrease our use of red meat.
Notice I said “incorporate” and “decrease” because there is no way we would be able to go cold turkey on red meat or be completely veggie right away. I would definitely be giving that up by January 18. But more sustainable food that will be healthy for us and for the environment.
And the last thing I want to work on is sustainable fashion. Wow…fashion and sustainable food makes me crazy nervous. It’s estimated that 20 – 35% of the microplastics in the ocean are from our clothing. Not to mention, clothes and waste from the manufacturing of clothes is a highly wasteful industry.
Most of our clothes are made out of plastic. And then they get thrown in the trash.
Apparently it’s referred to as “fast fashion”. Trendy clothes mass produced and sold at astonishingly low prices…..and made in a not-so-sustainable manner. Made out of plastic and likely to not last long.a
This makes me so nervous. Have I mentioned how cheap I am??? I REALLY like a bargain.
Most of clothes currently come from Amazon. Not just like – ordered on Amazon – they are the AMAZON brand of clothing. Not to mention that I own like 10 pairs of Converse.
But I want to support companies that are sustainable and eco-friendly. So this is the year to explore those brands. And I’ve already started actually because surprise – some of them do sell their items on Amazon.

It all started because I was thinking I need some new sports bras. Let’s take a look at Exhibit A, shall we?

Oh, don’t think they look that bad? Well….I’ve had most of these since high school. Or got them as hand-me-downs from my sister after she finished with them after she finished high school. They are literally falling apart and recently, I ran a race with my sister and had her listen to how the elastic would break and crackle when I stretched it out.

So I started shopping and realized, I should look for sustainable companies. And I found several companies I was interested in, but as I filled up my cart with about $70 worth of sports bras….I realized I don’t really need new sports bras. I have only ever been busty when I was pregnant and nursing, and now that that has passed….well, my breasts are more like shriveled little raisins. I don’t need a lot of support. So I’m actually going to wait on them a little more until they’re like totally totally kaput (…..wait….did you hear that? That was the sound of my sister sadly saying, “No….Julie….No…..just get the sports bras…..just…..No).
My hope and purpose in this is that as essentials wear out in my closet, I replace them with a sustainable brand, something that can be recycled easily, is made out of recycled clothes, or I get them second-hand.
So naturally, the first thing I plan on doing is trying to make my current clothes last as long as possible. I’m not really the type to go shopping every week, so that shouldn’t be a problem. But in addition to my sports bras, I have my dress pair of black flats that are looking a little grim.

Yeah….see the holes in the padding of my shoes? I have a weird callus on the bottom of my feet, right beside the ball of my foot, but not on the ball of my foot and they literally will wear through shoes (see Exhibit B above).
So I’m imagining that they will be saying their final farewells, possibly at the end of the school year and that I will replace them with either some Rothy’s or AllBirds which are both sustainable brands. Which means spending around $100 for a pair of shoes. In comparison, I bought the cheap pair above in Exhibit B for probably around $25 at Marshall’s and I was probably upset that they weren’t cheaper.
I do have a few exceptions – first of all, I’m a runner and it took me a long time to find my running shoe fit (Asics, in case you’re wondering) and so I will always buy those new and never look into whether they’re made sustainably (I’m sure they’re not). I feel like runners are very serious about their shoes and I’ve had enough running injuries to not want to mess with anything with that. It’s also why I never want to go skiing with my husband when he asks – I just want to be able to run.
Also, I will make exceptions for my kids. Most of their clothes are hand-me-downs or from Goodwill or yard sales, but they grow like weeds, they go through clothes fast, so I’m not going to spend $40 on a pair of pants that they are going to draw all over with Sharpies (…or in the case of tonight, dry erase markers) and only be able to fit into for a few months. I will still try for second hand clothes – especially since they have no awareness of fashion and fitting in right now.
This to me also extends to bigger items as well. For Christmas, my husband and I just got ourselves a new King bed. I did feel bad for buying new but our old bed was very old and causing back pain for both of us. It was time. We did buy an eco-friendly mattress on Amazon though (or at least that’s what the internet told me….and the internet never lies).
We’re currently in the market for a sleeper sofa, and yes, I’m searching on Craigslist and Facebook Marketplace for one that will meet our needs (essentially to be slip-covered in a play room and occasionally serve as a guest bed).
So there you have it – setting my intentions for 2020. Compost, food, and fashion. I’m worried…..especially since it’s January 4th and I pulled out meatballs and a beef stew that was frozen in my freezer and also had 2 sweaters arrive today from American Eagle that are made of Polyester. I’m off to a great start, huh?
If there’s one thing I’ve learned this year though, it’s that I’m going to experience setbacks and occasionally forget a cup or my silverware when I go out and I just have to make the best of it. I won’t be perfect, but that’s no reason to quit. Progress over Perfection.
2020 – Here we go……






























































































